by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Health & Spirit, Interesting Info, Money & Spirit, Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
I received an email from a fellow spiritual teacher in which she talked about “lessons”. You’ve probably heard something about lessons all your life–you have to learn your lessons, you came into this life to learn certain lessons and you’ll keep being challenged until you learn the lesson.
Bullshit.
Pardon my profanity, but I never like using the word “lessons”. The word “lesson” contains implicit reference to your ability to pass or fail. And that’s just not how it works.
The Universe is logical. There is no pass or fail, no right or wrong way to live your life. There is only what you like and what you don’t like.
Yes, you learn, but not because anyone is keeping score and not because you might fail and mess up and fall down and never get it right. You don’t have to get it right. Your mission is to live in the way that you like.
Yes, there are consequences to actions, thoughts, and feelings. What you get to learn is which actions, thoughts, and feelings bring the consequences you like, instead of the ones you don’t like.
Yes, it can be a little tricky. But you have plenty of cosmic help and support. Instead of “lessons”, think of “messages”. Messages come at you all the time. This is the word I prefer to “lessons”. If you think of “messages” being provided to you through the consequences you are experiencing, you can figure out which messages lead you to the consequences you like.
Pay attention! Thoughts that pop into your head, conversations you overhear, something that gets your attention on the radio, experiences that happen to you, and eventually your own body… all of these contain messages that are intended to guide you toward what you like.
Pay attention!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Health & Spirit, Interesting Info, Money & Spirit, Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
[originally published October 19, 2007–and still completely relevant]
WHY DID I ATTRACT THIS…
That’s the question we all need to ask all the time.
Many people have seen “The Secret” (and if you haven’t seen it, please go to http://www.thesecret.tv/ and watch it) and have been studying the Law of Attraction, so they’re starting to be conversant in some of those principles.
In my practice as a psychic medium and medical intuitive, I am starting to notice that my clients don’t get the whole picture of just what this attraction thing is.
Simply stated, the Law of Attraction is a law of physics that applies to your life in that what you put your attention on, you attract to you. Most people look at this law like “How can I attract more money/love/etc.?”
And that is great. That is the best use of the Law of Attraction and if you are consistently attracting things, people, relationships, and experiences that please you, I congratulate you! That is fantastic!
Unfortunately, that is not the case for about 98% of us out there. Most of us continue to attract at least a few things that we’re not too crazy about and here’s the kicker: nobody knows they’re doing it.
Just this past week, I have talked to three clients who were actually offended when I suggested that they had attracted experiences into their life that they didn’t like. “Why would I attract THAT?” they demanded. “I don’t want THAT, it’s BAD.”
Right, I get that. I understand that you don’t consciously want car trouble, health problems, bad grades, bad breath, or whatever. Who would?
And that’s exactly why you need to ask, “Why did I attract THIS?” Anything that gets your attention for better or worse, ask the question.
Here’s a dire example. Many people know that my husband died several years ago and left me with two small children to raise and very little life insurance. Why did I attract THAT?
Why indeed. I may never know all the reasons, but I know there are some, probably many, and some of them I do understand. And with some of those larger things (and maybe the small things too), your spirit got together with other spirits to plan some of the important events you wanted in your life as a human.
This is why we sometimes have trouble understanding—we don’t communicate with our own spirits very well. I work to bridge that gap for my clients, helping them communicate with Spirit and understand why they’re here—even when they’re attracting things they don’t like.
Food for thought, eh?
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Business/Entrepreneurs, Health & Spirit, Money & Spirit, Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
Oy! It can be confusing sometimes, just living in this human life, day after day. And you may have noticed that I have been talking about beliefs lately… See this post and/or this one.
And if you listened in on the little audio about wealth I did recently, you may have heard me talking about beliefs there too. In meditation, my angels revealed this to me:
You create what you believe, and you believe what you create.
Simple? Yes. Easy? No way.
Let’s take a closer look at this. You know that you are creating all the time, right? That everything in your life, every feeling, every person and relationship, every material thing, every experience–you’ve created and attracted and allowed all of it. Right? Okay.
And you further know that you can change everything in your life by choosing to change it and thinking about it. (For more info on Law of Attraction, refer to www.Abraham-Hicks.com and get a BEST Psychic Reading with me.)
So what this deal is saying is that (a) you create what you believe–okay, so you’re sitting there, wallowing in beliefs like “I’m not good enough” or “I can’t make more money” or “I’m fat” or whatever negative thing you’re thinking. And you create that. You have created that thing you don’t like and don’t want.
However, before you do anything else, you automatically accept what you see and experience as reality. So (b) you believe what you create. Looking at what you now have, you say, “This is real, this is reality, this is what I have. I believe it.”
And then you create what you believe.
Yeah, a vicious cycle indeed.
What can you do about it? Try not believing what you think is real. Try not believing at all. Try believing something that you can’t see or feel right now.
And when you’ve got it licked, let me know!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Health & Spirit, Money & Spirit, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
We all know what it takes to break a habit, right? You just have to have the willpower to do it!
It takes willpower to quit smoking, lose weight, or get that Starbucks monkey off your back! If you don’t have the willpower, you’re told that you are “weak” or “weak-willed”. And you pray for the willpower to make something happen.
Well, what if, instead of trying to “will” yourself to do something good for you, you just had the desire to do it?
What if you just woke up one morning and said, “I am so excited to go to the gym!”? And you really felt excited to go work out? Or you just had NO DESIRE for another cigarette. Wow.
One of my friends quit smoking years ago, and after about 5 years, I asked her, “Do you ever want a cigarette?” She said, “Every day.”
By using willpower, she didn’t smoke, but she still WANTED to smoke.
I myself am a former smoker. Yes, it’s true. And you know there is nothing more sanctimonious than an ex-smoker! I actually quit 5 times before it took. And the reason? I quit because I had the DESIRE. The first 4 times, I only used willpower. And I eventually failed.
You see, when you feel the desire to do something, there is no need for willpower. You don’t have to think about it. You just do what you have the desire to do. You don’t have to will yourself to go to the gym or not to smoke. You don’t have to make yourself go to a job you hate or not to go to Starbucks. (I admit I’m a Starbucks junkie with no DESIRE to quit!)
So where do you get this fabulous thing called desire? Ask.
That’s it. You just ask for it. And you tell Mr. Will Power good-bye, because you don’t need him anymore. Miss Dee Zire has taken over and she feels good!
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by Susan K Morrow | Dec 13, 2013 | Colors of Energy, Health & Spirit, Interesting Info, Money & Spirit, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
This is my continuing series about the colors of energy. The first four paragraphs explain the process, then we’ll get to this post’s color.
You may know that I work a lot around the colors of energy. If you’ve had a reading from me, you know that I give you a “color snapshot” that tells you what color is primary in your life energy at the moment, and then I explain what that means. Similarly, I read auras (even though I don’t call them that) and I relate what I see in colors, shapes, and location around your physical body. This all helps me to interpret for you just what you need to know.
I understand and work with color so well that I decided to help you understand it better too. This is why I have written this series, What Your Favorite Color Says about You.
It’s as the title says; however, I realize that some people don’t have a favorite color, and some people have more than one. That’s okay. Here are some ways to determine what color or colors pertain most to you and your life:
- If you have an actual favorite color, well, there you go.
- If you have a secondary and tertiary favorite, those will pertain to you too.
- Look in your closet: What color/s are most prominent in your wardrobe?
- What color is your car? This is applicable even if you did not choose the color of your car, maybe even more so. I notice that people often wear the color/s that are present in their energy, and that their cars and other belongings tend to have them too.
- If you really, really don’t have a favorite or un-favorite or a strong opinion, you’re a rainbow!
Each color has a “light” side and a “shadow” side, or positive and negative. (Note: This does NOT mean good and evil! Everything is useful and there is no devil! But that’s another story…) I’ll call them “bright” and “dark” because we describe colors that way. You may consider the “dark” version of the color to be your un-favorite, but either or both may apply to you. See how you identify with the following.
This time, our color is green. If green is your favorite color or your un-favorite color (or otherwise present in your life; see above), here are the ideas and values you are concerned about:
Green overview: human-level, conditional, and/or protective love; an effort to be loving; heart; money (although there will be more of this in the bonus colors at the end of the series); contrary to a common phrase, envy isn’t really green!
Bright green: You are very loving and giving, often to a fault, and you like for others to get along with you and each other. You forgive easily. It’s hard for you to understand other people who fight or who hate each other just because they disagree. (This election must be really hard on you!) Family and close friends are very important to you and you especially enjoy family meals and get-togethers, like game night. Personal relationships are generally at the top of your list of priorities.
Dark green: You may feel as though you are missing something. You often love people who hurt you, and continue loving them, even though you promise yourself you won’t get hurt in that same way again. Each hurt creates a little green brick in your wall of protecting your heart. Physically, you may have any chest-area ailments, either chronic or acute. What is actually missing is a love of self. To go back toward the bright side, work on loving yourself first and seek the Divine Love that is within you, the perfect unconditional love that is All That Is. “Love thy neighbor as thyself.” [Leviticus 19:18, Mark 12:31, etc.] That means you love yourself FIRST and then love your neighbor with the same high regard.
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 13, 2013 | Colors of Energy, Health & Spirit, Interesting Info, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
Welcome back to my continuing series about the colors of energy. The first four paragraphs explain the process, then we’ll get to this post’s color.
You may know that I work a lot around the colors of energy. If you’ve had a reading from me, you know that I give you a “color snapshot” that tells you what color is primary in your life energy at the moment, and then I explain what that means. Similarly, I read auras (even though I don’t call them that) and I relate what I see in colors, shapes, and location around your physical body. This all helps me to interpret for you just what you need to know.
I understand and work with color so well that I decided to help you understand it better too. This is why I have written this series, What Your Favorite Color Says about You.
It’s as the title says; however, I realize that some people don’t have a favorite color, and some people have more than one. That’s okay. Here are some ways to determine what color or colors pertain most to you and your life:
- If you have an actual favorite color, well, there you go.
- If you have a secondary and tertiary favorite, those will pertain to you too.
- Look in your closet: What color/s are most prominent in your wardrobe?
- What color is your car? This is applicable even if you did not choose the color of your car, maybe even more so. I notice that people often wear the color/s that are present in their energy, and that their cars and other belongings tend to have them too.
- If you really, really don’t have a favorite or un-favorite or a strong opinion, you’re a rainbow!
Each color has a “light” side and a “shadow” side, or positive and negative. (Note: This does NOT mean good and evil! Everything is useful and there is no devil! But that’s another story…) I’ll call them “bright” and “dark” because we describe colors that way. You may consider the “dark” version of the color to be your un-favorite, but either or both may apply to you. See how you identify with the following.
This time, our color is white. If white is your favorite color or your un-favorite color (or otherwise present in your life; see above), here are the ideas and values you are concerned about:
A special note about white: It can overlap with purple, which we covered last time.
White overview: Spirituality, connection to God/Universe/Higher Self (or “GUS”), divine inspiration, your soul category/s; physically, white(or purple) is the color of the entire body and/or any whole system, can also show pain; healing energy; angelic energy.
Bright white: Spirituality is very important to you, whether through your religion or other means–and remember, “spirituality” and “religion” are two very different things, but they can overlap. You feel there is something much greater than yourself, a powerful creative force that is everything. You may meditate and/or pray regularly and engage in spiritual activities, whether that means going to church or going to yoga or another spiritual activity, such as singing, enjoying nature, etc. Healing energy is white, so healers have white in their energy. You may have heard of “white-lighters”–this is why they are called that!
Dark white: White may show up for you as physical pain. I once saw a woman at the pharmacy who was trying to get migraine medicine, and she had a swirling white tornado on top of her head (in my mind’s eye). I’ve often heard that migraines, for example, are due to blocked psychic energy, and I can attest that mine began to lessen in frequency and severity when I started working as a professional psychic. You may also deny the existence of God or be angry with God. As with purple, I’ll advise, to head back to the bright side, try just reading one book by me, Wayne Dyer, Neale Donald Walsch, Deepak Chopra, Louise Hay, or any other spiritual author who appeals to you–well, appeals to you at least a little bit! You will also benefit from watching “The Secret” and/or “What the Bleep Do We Know?”
