by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Interesting Info, Your Life
You may recall that I featured Dr. Robert Anthony in this blog post not long ago. Dr. Anthony recently sent an email that really got me thinking, and I thought it might be helpful to you too. See what you think:
“If you want your reality to be different from ‘what is’, then you might as well try to teach your cat to bark. You can try and try and in the end the cat will look up at you and say ‘Meow’. Wanting your reality to be different from what it is in this moment is just as stupid. You can spend the rest of your life trying to teach your cat to bark, but you will never succeed.
“And yet if you pay attention, you’ll notice that you think thoughts like this dozens of times every day. People should be… My neighbors should be… My husband should… My wife should… I should…
“These thoughts are ways of wanting reality to be different from the way it is. Here is my point – all the stress you feel in your life at this moment is caused by arguing with ‘what is’.
“People say to me, ‘But if I simply accept reality then I will become passive and nothing will change.’ I answer them with this question. ‘Which of these statements makes more sense? “I wish I hadn’t lost all that money.” or “What can I do now to create more income?”‘
“Accepting ‘what is’ doesn’t mean you condone or approve of the way things are, it just means you give up all the resistance and inner struggle by wishing it were different. No one wants to lose their money, have their children get sick or be in a car accident.
“However, when these things happen it can it be helpful not to mentally argue with them. We know better than to do that, yet we do it because it is a HABITUAL PATTERN.
“I am a lover of ‘what is’, not because it is the ‘right’ thing to do, but because it hurts when I argue with reality, and when I do, I ALWAYS lose.”
What do you think? How does it make you feel? Does this get your mind’s gears turning? It certainly gave me plenty to think about! Please share your comments below with me and other readers.
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Money & Spirit, Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
I often find myself teaching clients about giving and receiving.
Many people are caught up in guilt and a lack of divine value, and they (we) have been taught that it is better to give than to receive. This leads to an experience of lack in many, if not all, areas of one’s life.
That’s why I teach that it is equal to give as to receive, and you can’t have one without the other. This then leads me to instruct my clients to practice giving to and receiving from themselves, accomplishing four things:
- Show the Universe that you are ready to receive, so that other receiving opportunities will start showing up in your experience.
- Get accustomed to receiving.
- Develop your sense of divine value.
- Learn that giving and receiving are equal.
How do you give to yourself?
- Start small–give a compliment to yourself in the mirror and accept it with thanks, grace, and no excuses.
- Think of a chore as something that you give to yourself because you are worthy. For example, think, “I’m washing these clothes, because I am special enough to have clean and presentable clothes to wear.”
- Make a special meal just for yourself, and enjoy it without television or other distractions. Focus on the food and the gift you have prepared for yourself.
- Give gifts to yourself, such as new shoes, a massage, a facial, a book, or a concert. Include another if you like, and thank yourself profusely, honoring the gift and the receipt.
Try this for yourself, and feel free to share it with your friends too. I am all for everyone becoming good receivers!
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by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
Can you believe it is already 2012? I have some thoughts on the New Year–and the old one.
First, though, I loved the holidays, just as I always do every year, and I hope yours were at least pleasant or even extraordinary! For me personally, besides marrying off my older daughter and enjoying the rest of my family for Christmas, while she and her new husband were off on their honeymoon, I had a couple of big stresses.
The worst one was getting a computer virus right before Christmas. As I write this, it is still not completely back together. The computer is working great, but all my data have yet to be restored. I have faith that they will be (i.e., I EXPECT it–expectation = faith = manifestation), so I’m not really all that jumpy about it. In fact, the whole situation has shown me that I am generally pretty relaxed and easy-going. My sister even said that about me at Christmas. She was telling me how anxious she gets over things and I started singing that Bobby McFerrin song, “Don’t worry… Be happy.” She said, “That’s what you do! I wish I could do that!” And I hope that I can help impart that to others. From my lips to God’s ears!
Anyway, here’s my thought about 2011. You may recall my whining about 2010 here, even though I was spinning it all in a positive direction. It was a pretty bad year; in fact, I still hold that it was the worst year of my life, and that includes the year my husband died! (How? Because his death was not the WHOLE YEAR.) So there was almost no way that 2011 could be any worse, and it was bound to be better. And it was! Thank goodness!
However… Here’s a story that helps illustrate how 2011 was better but still not what I wanted. Several years ago, a friend’s wife was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was one of the most curable versions of the disease and her treatment was relatively easy. RELATIVELY. That means, compared with many patients, she got off easy. Later, my friend said, “We were so busy being grateful that it wasn’t worse, we forgot it was still horrible!”
And that’s kind of how I feel about 2011. No, it wasn’t horrible. It was MUCH MUCH better than 2010, which is all I could hope for last year! But I want 2012 to be so wonderful that it makes me forget 2010 altogether! Want to join me? Let’s start expecting now!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Interesting Info, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
I just noticed something – a few weeks ago, I’m not sure when exactly, I stopped dreaming. And I don’t mean the dreams I have at night while I’m asleep. Those actually increased when I stopped dreaming during my waking time.
I’ve always had a pretty active fantasy life. And since I learned about the Law of Attraction a number of years ago, I have been even more intent on dreaming effectively.
What do I dream about? Oh, probably similar things to what you dream about: fun things to do, travel, a great marriage, happy friendships, and, of course, shopping. And maybe winning the “World’s Greatest Psychic” award.
But a few weeks ago, somewhere around Thanksgiving, I got distracted from dreaming and started being all–well, for lack of a better word, serious. There were many serious things I had to attend to, and I focused on them and not on my “silly fantasies.”
And do you know what happened? Nothing. I mean, nothing bad happened, but my life stopped moving forward. Things came to a standstill. Oh, sure, life went on, Thanksgiving was enjoyed, my daughter’s wedding was definitely wonderful, Christmas was a pretty good one, considering my daughter and her new husband were still on their honeymoon. But nothing new came along. In fact, things seemed to sort of–contract.
That’s it. Things contracted. They stopped expanding and growing and changing and morphing and creating. I stopped creating.
Fortunately, I discovered this problem after only a few weeks! I’ve started dreaming again, bigger than ever, and now the wheels are starting to turn forward again. I can feel it. And I can feel the world changing faster.
Have you stopped dreaming? How long has it been? Could that be the reason you’re not moving forward?
Next time you see that corny motivational poster that says, “Dare to dream”, do.
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by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
February–ah, the month of love! So I guess it’s appropriate for me to talk about loooove, isn’t it? Personally, I have not had a serious relationship in some time, and I am looking forward to finding my next one very soon. I think the Universe owes me, because I haven’t whined at all about not having a boyfriend! Okay, maybe a little bit. ;o)
But the point is that I don’t crave a relationship. And this is what I want to talk about. Just a little–don’t roll your eyes at me! Whether you are in a relationship or marriage right now or not, this is something that you need to know. And I have learned it over three marriages! Well, okay, the last one wasn’t a marriage, but I learned from it just the same.
I find this to be true for probably 80% to 90% of my clients, and it was true for me until a few years ago: Relationship problems–including the absence of a relationship–are always due to a lack of value for yourself. You have to value yourself, you have to get that knowing deep inside you that you are worthy of love, joy, and abundance.
It’s very common in our society to want to be in a relationship. And I believe that human beings are meant to be in loving pairs. But not having a relationship doesn’t make you less-than! And not being happy within one doesn’t either. It just means that you haven’t recognized your Divine Value yet. This will show up in a lot of ways that I don’t have the space to go into here, but suffice it to say that, if you will concentrate on loving yourself, valuing yourself, and believing in your worthiness, you will come out far better in the relationship game.
Blessings for love to you!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Channeled Messages, Your Life
I channeled this message for my Club members not long ago, and I was so blown away by it that I felt you needed to see it too. This is the kind of message I channel for people in Mystic Mails, too. If you like it, you can get your own, and/or you might like to check out an entire book of such messages, Channel One: 137 Messages from the Universe.
Oh, our dear, we are excited for you and we are fighting for you. We are fighting for you to understand your duties here in this life. On this earth. You have a special tribute to pay to all that is, a special homage to yourself. Oh, you are not all that is and all that can be and all that has been? Indeed you are. This joyous day, we ask that you look inside yourself and look around you as well, and find that which makes your heart sing the loudest. Then, do everything you possibly can to do that today. Some part of it, some step toward it, something that will help your heart to sing today. Do not be worried about others, what they think, how they are doing it, what might make their hearts sing. Only concern others in your undertaking if you believe that they will benefit from what you are doing. That is all. It is simple, and we love you in all your glory!
