Here’s something you may not know about the way I talk to dead people:

Have you ever watched a medium like John Edward, working in a group? He’ll say, “I’m getting someone in this area of the group [gesturing to a swath of the audience] who has a husband or brother who passed of a sudden impact, like a car wreck.” Even working one-to-one, most mediums will see who shows up and then you help to identify them.

I used to do that too, because I learned from watching John Edward, but I stopped doing that and started doing this instead:

I simply ask which of your late loved ones you are missing the most and for their name and relationship to you. Unlike many mediums, I don’t have any trouble calling someone up on the cosmic phone, “Hi, this is MoJo, Mary is here and would like to talk to Jim. Is he around?”

And here’s why I do it this way and it’s an important 3-part why:

For one thing, John Edward and others could possibly (I don’t think John does) use this method just to choose a person to read for. Like, maybe they don’t actually have anyone from the Other Side waiting in the wings, but they are just narrowing it down–someone in a hall of hundreds of people will have lost their husband or brother that way, right? It just seems a little disingenuous to me.

Before you start thinking I am a Doubting Debbie Downer, I could be wrong. It is definitely a possibility that John and others are simply going with the loudest spirit who’s hanging around, waiting to talk to their living loved ones. After all, when I used that method, that’s what I was doing, so who am I to judge?

Secondly, when I did it the “John Edward way,” sometimes a client would be disappointed not to hear from someone they were hoping for. One lady at a house party even got mad at me because she didn’t hear from who she wanted to and “didn’t like the ones who” she did hear from! (I thought that was hilarious, because she blithely ignored the fact that I was able to talk to dead people, which is kind of a rare gift, to say the least!)

And finally, it saves everyone a lot of time not having to wait to figure out who this person is on the Other Side. “Red hair? Who had red hair? Just that one little girl down the block when I was 5 years old. Is it that little girl?”

So that’s my MoJo Method and I’m stickin’ to it. If you come to a reading with me, expecting to wait to see who “shows up,” you‘ll be pleasantly surprised to hear from exactly who you wanted to hear from.