by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Interesting Info, Money & Spirit, Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
The difference between something manifesting the hard way and something manifesting the easy way is the difference between desperation and relaxation.
Read that again. I’ll wait.
I’ve figured this one out: Even though you don’t need to worry about “the accursed hows”, if you don’t relax when you’re manifesting, those “hows” can turn out pretty rotten.
You know how all the gurus and LOA teachers, myself included, say not to worry about “how”? Just put your order for what you want in to the Universe and leave the “how” up to it. Right? I even posted a channeled message about this very topic recently. In that message, the angels/guides said to “let the Universe be your engineer, and you concentrate on being the designer.”
Which all makes perfect sense!
BUT… You know I always have a big but…!
I have noticed that, when I am desperate for something to be born or created or made manifest, I am likely to get it in a very difficult or unpleasant way.
Case in point: my move back to my hometown a couple of years ago. I had always wanted to move home, since I moved away to Austin in 1983, but always had some really compelling reason why I had to stay in Austin. Finally, in 2010, I was kicked out of Austin and sent packing by the Universe. Circumstances arose that forced me to move and move pretty fast. The move itself was utterly horrendous, and I don’t want to dwell on those details, but suffice it to say I came pretty close to a complete break-down. And the pain and suffering continued for months afterward.
Conclusion: I got what I wanted. I got to move home. But it was definitely “the hard way.”
Another example: My client was desperate to get out of her unhappy marriage. She prayed to get out of it somehow, some way, and she left the “how” up to the Universe. Well, one day, a gay woman walked into her life and they fell madly in love. But my client wasn’t actually gay; she was straight. There then ensued several years, yes, years, of on-and-off with the gay woman. They loved each other but both wanted the other to be something she just couldn’t be. And so that relationship ended, and badly. My client got what she wanted–out of the marriage. But it was unquestionably “the hard way.”
What’s the message here? When you are desperate for something to come through for you, you are likely to
a) wait a long time for it and
b) get it the hard way.
How do you get something “the easy way” instead? You still leave the “how” up to the Universe, but you have to relax about what you want.
Desperation brings “the hard way”.
Relaxation brings “the easy way”.
More to come on this. In the meantime, what do you think? What has your experience been with manifesting the easy way and the hard way? Please leave your comments below.
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
I’ve been having a personal crisis lately, because my daughter is moving overseas with her husband, who is a U.S. Marine. I am very proud of them, of course, and so glad that they will get to be together during this assignment, but it’s just killing me that they will be so far away for so long.
One day, I ran into an acquaintance whose son happens to be a Marine also. I mentioned that my daughter and her husband were leaving and said, “It’s just killing me.”
She replied, “Oh, because it’s all about YOU, isn’t it.” And she smiled, but it was the kind of smile that made me want to punch her in it.
Well, the truth is that MY life IS indeed all about me. And my daughter’s life is all about her. Why shouldn’t I be sad that my daughter is moving halfway around the world and I will miss her terribly? Why should it not make me sad that a grandchild could be born while they’re gone and I probably won’t be able to be there?
The truth is that YOUR life is all about YOU too. You were probably told at some time in your childhood that “The world doesn’t revolve around you” or “You aren’t the center of the universe.”
But in reality, it does. You are a creator, you create your own life, in tandem with the Creative Forces of the Universe. And everything that you have created is about you.
So how does that affect those around you, if their lives are about them? Well, we all provide messages and information and experiences for one another. It’s an intricate tapestry that is so brilliantly woven together that everything happens just as it should for each one of us.
And your life is all about you. So go ahead. Make it all about you. And punch that sanctimonious smile!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Interesting Info, Your Life
You may recall that I subscribe to emails from Dr. Robert Anthony, and I often find terrific insight in them. (See this post for another Dr. Anthony piece.) Today’s email was profound and very appropriate, so here it is for you to enjoy:
How often do you experience synchronicity? Webster’s says the
meaning of synchronicity is “to cause to operate with exact
coincidence in time or rate or to operate in unison.” At the higher
Levels of Awareness, you are more likely to experience people,
opportunities and all measure of material things flowing to you
almost as you think of them. These are synchronistic events.
Part of synchronicity is being in the right place at the right
time. Does that mean that you simply believe that you are in the
right place at the right time and then you are? To some degree,
yes, that’s true. But the opposite is also true. If you believe
that you are at the wrong place and time, you probably will
experience that as well! Since what you focus on expands, you can
create either experience as your reality. Which way do you want it
to be for you?
The more you believe in and affirm the unison of your highest and
best thoughts, feelings and desires the more you are likely to
experience life as a synchronistic adventure.
Be aware of skepticism as you read that last paragraph. There are
some people who look for everything as synchronicity and a sign of
positive meaning. “You like pizza and jazz, so do I! We must be
soul mates!” That is not the synchronicity I am talking about.
Although experiences of synchronicity can be small, like finding
just what you needed in the most unlikely place, they can also be
profound and sometimes overwhelming.
A man I know was concerned about his inability to contact his
father who was in Africa during a turbulent civil war. To distract
himself from his worry, the son went to a Grateful Dead concert
near Washington DC. In the middle of a huge crowd of vendors, the
son “accidentally” ran into someone who knew his father in Africa
and was able to reassure the son that his father was alive and well
in Africa! Now that is being in the right place at the right time!
Today, open your eyes, ears and heart to all the synchronistic
experiences that are happening around you that you may have never
noticed before or have taken for granted!
Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress – IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how
large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will
only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.
Truly Caring for Your Success!
Dr. Robert Anthony
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Suzi-Q & A, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
I love to find answers to some of life’s biggest questions. I’m always looking and listening for them, so it’s very satisfying to find them!
This time, it’s about what happens in your life, the experiences and relationships you attract and create as you go through your life.
It’s been said (quite often) that everything happens for a reason, and you may know that I always say,
“Everything happens not for A reason, but for many reasons.”
And my corollary to that is, you may not ever know all the reasons for something, but they are there.
You may also know that I talk about there being messages contained in everything we experience–what happens in a day, what we overhear, thoughts in our heads, songs on the radio, and especially in synchronistic occurrences. Our lives are about getting these messages and putting them to good use, finding out what makes us happy (and what makes us unhappy) and how to bring more of those happy times to us.
Well, I got a little more insight into that the other day.
I was talking with a client whose husband passed away about 5 years ago. My own husband has been gone 17 years, and I always knew that there would be some way I would wind up helping someone because of that. (There are many other reasons and “good” things to come out of my husband’s death, but we’ll save that for another time.)
My client is a relationship coach and she developed a program to help her clients find love after loss. So she used her experience to help other people, right? And now, she is divorcing her second husband, which I also did. Because my experience came first, I am able to help her with hers.
Here’s another example. How many people have you known who survived cancer and claim that the experience changed their lives forever? (For better or worse.) How many of them helped someone else in a similar situation, or became a doctor or other healer because of it, invented something to help cancer patients, volunteered for Hospice, inspired others, and on and on?
The late comic Ron Shock produced a series of videos from his cancer diagnosis to the end of his life, talking about his situation and sharing stories from his life in comedy. (He was a very funny guy and I recommend looking up his “Cancer Chronicles” on You Tube.)
In one of his stories, Ron talked about his oncologist, whose wife got cancer during Ron’s treatment. What are the odds? That someone in a cancer doctor’s own family would get cancer? Did that doctor lose someone he loved to cancer when he was growing up? Was his father (or mother) a doctor? Did he just feel the calling?
Do you see where I’m going with this? Your life is all about you first. Become self-aware, and you will be other-aware. Help yourself and you can help others. Get the message for yourself, then help someone else in need of getting that same message.
Happy Helping!
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by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Colors of Energy, Interesting Info, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
You may know that I work a lot around the colors of energy. If you’ve had a reading from me, you know that I give you a “color snapshot” that tells you what color is primary in your life energy at the moment, and then I explain what that means. Similarly, I read auras (even though I don’t call them that) and I relate what I see in colors, shapes, and location around your physical body. This all helps me to interpret for you just what you need to know.
I understand and work with color so much that I decided to help you understand it better too. This is why I have written this series, What Your Favorite Color Says about You.
It’s as the title says; however, I realize that some people don’t have a favorite color, and some people have more than one. That’s okay. Here are some ways to determine what color or colors pertain most to you and your life:
- If you have an actual favorite color, well, there you go.
- If you have a secondary and tertiary favorite, those will pertain to you too.
- Look in your closet: What color/s are most prominent in your wardrobe?
- What color is your car? This is applicable even if you did not choose the color of your car, maybe even more so. I notice that people often wear the color/s that are present in their energy, and that their cars and other belongings tend to have them too.
- If you really, really don’t have a favorite or un-favorite or a strong opinion, you’re a rainbow!
Each color has a “light” side and a “shadow” side, or positive and negative. (Note: This does NOT mean good and evil! Everything is useful and there is no devil! But that’s another story…) I’ll call them “bright” and “dark” because we describe colors that way. You may consider the “dark” version of the color to be your un-favorite, but either or both may apply to you. See how you identify with the following.
We’re going to start with red. If red is your favorite color or your un-favorite color (or otherwise present in your life; see above), here are the ideas and values you are concerned about:
Red overview: Passion, anger, support, inflammation
Bright red: You tend to be involved with and close to your family of origin, which can include grandparents and people who are like family from your childhood. You may enjoy memories of your growing-up years and remember those years fondly. You also know how to be independent, and you don’t suffer a lot of drama with your family. You stand on your own two feet and stand up for yourself. You support yourself spiritually and emotionally, and you take care of your most basic needs. You’re good at self-care.
Dark red: You may have unhealthy emotional attachments to or be estranged from your family of origin. You tend to have trouble taking care of yourself and wonder how you wound up like you did. You might blame your parent/s for things that you don’t like about your life. You may have a background of having been abused, and it’s hard for you to take good care of yourself, which leads to you depending on others and trying to please others so they will give you what you need. To go back toward “bright red”, remember that you came into this life to be happy, and that you and only you have created and can create or re-create your life. Of course, there is plenty of help for you to learn to do that, including books, websites, teachers, and, of course, me!
by Susan K Morrow | Dec 15, 2013 | Colors of Energy, Interesting Info, The Psychic Has Pspoken!, Your Life
This is my continuing series about the colors of energy. The first four paragraphs explain the process, then we’ll get to today’s color.
You may know that I work a lot around the colors of energy. If you’ve had a reading from me, you know that I give you a “color snapshot” that tells you what color is primary in your life energy at the moment, and then I explain what that means. Similarly, I read auras (even though I don’t call them that) and I relate what I see in colors, shapes, and location around your physical body. This all helps me to interpret for you just what you need to know.
I understand and work with color so much that I decided to help you understand it better too. This is why I have written this series, What Your Favorite Color Says about You.
It’s as the title says; however, I realize that some people don’t have a favorite color, and some people have more than one. That’s okay. Here are some ways to determine what color or colors pertain most to you and your life:
- If you have an actual favorite color, well, there you go.
- If you have a secondary and tertiary favorite, those will pertain to you too.
- Look in your closet: What color/s are most prominent in your wardrobe?
- What color is your car? This is applicable even if you did not choose the color of your car, maybe even more so. I notice that people often wear the color/s that are present in their energy, and that their cars and other belongings tend to have them too.
- If you really, really don’t have a favorite or un-favorite or a strong opinion, you’re a rainbow!
Each color has a “light” side and a “shadow” side, or positive and negative. (Note: This does NOT mean good and evil! Everything is useful and there is no devil! But that’s another story…) I’ll call them “bright” and “dark” because we describe colors that way. You may consider the “dark” version of the color to be your un-favorite, but either or both may apply to you. See how you identify with the following.
This time, our color is orange. If orange is your favorite color or your un-favorite color (or otherwise present in your life; see above), here are the ideas and values you are concerned about:
Orange overview: Create, children, sexuality, partnership/marriage, creativity; a lot of school teachers will be “orange” people.
Bright orange: You are very creative, whether in traditional “crafty” ways or in the way of often having original ideas and/or completing projects with ease. You may be paternal/maternal toward your own children or others’, or your pets, or everyone. Marriage and partnerships are important to you and you feel they are worth working on to make them good. You feel that you have a destiny to create something in this life and leave a positive legacy. You like to be happy as much as possible, and it bothers you to have a bad day or mood. You also prefer that everyone gets along, so you may be a peacemaker.
Dark orange: You have been limited by circumstances from creating what you came here to create. Marriage/partnerships may elude you and/or be difficult. The dark side of orange often means that you have multiple romantic relationships that are toxic or just unsatisfying. Children may be an issue for you, especially if you have fertility problems or if you have children that you have trouble connecting with. This doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent, it just means that this is an issue for you. Improve your orange energy by remembering that you did come here to create something(s) important, and that relationships are best when they are interdependent, not when you depend on the other for happiness and fulfillment.
The difference between something manifesting the hard way and something manifesting the easy way is the difference between desperation and relaxation.
