I’m happy to address a topic that has been prominent in my experience lately. That is, how people feel about spending money on themselves.
I have had many clients who are eager to spend their money on my services, and then I have had one or two who say, “I can’t afford that right now.” And you can say that–don’t get me wrong; I am not saying that you can’t say that, but you might not WANT to say that anymore.
It occurred to me that any time my client doesn’t want to spend money on my services, not only is she denying herself something for some reason (we’ll get to that in a minute), but also I am attracting someone who says, “Not right now” to me. And that means that some small part of me is saying, “I’m not worthy of receiving that.”
Very often, when we say we can’t afford it, we are feeling a pinch in some way. And I promise you, it always comes down to whether you feel worthy. If you find yourself thinking something like, “There’s no way I can get any more money than I currently have. My company is not giving any raises right now, and I’ll just be lucky not to get laid off.” Or “my business is not going to get any more customers because the economy is bad right now. I’ll be lucky not to have to close my doors”–then you need a THINK ADJUSTMENT.
You know how very powerful your thoughts are. When you think, “There’s no way,” YOU’RE RIGHT! But when you think, “I don’t know the way yet, but I know there is one,” YOU’RE ALSO RIGHT!
I just decided today to start attracting money to YOU on your behalf. Yes, I can do that. (You can too.) I want to attract a lot of money to you, along with the feeling of worthiness, so that you can spend your money on all that you like and enjoy.
And I want to ask you to do your part. Be open to all possibilities. Allow the idea of solutions and methods existing that you cannot possibly imagine.
“There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.”
That Shakespeare was a man with a clue.
So remind yourself that you are worthy (even if you don’t feel it) of love, joy, and abundance. Imagine opening your mind and spirit to knew and different ideas. Ask for the opportunity, desire, motivation, and/or idea to DO whatever will bring you what you love and enjoy. (See more on that process here.)
And I will be over here, attracting money and abundance to you.